Chapter 65: Going Abroad

hey are utterly selfish and self-centered. As long as they live a carefree and happy life, their parents, children, and anyone else are matters not to them.

这种人有一个共性：绝对地自私自利，只要自己活得潇洒快活了，什么父母，什么子女，和自己半毛钱关系都没有。

What is bossy? What is weakness?

什么是强势？什么是软弱？

Some individuals are born non-threatening, without violent or aggressive tendencies, and possess a gentle nature, like Bai Ling.

有些人生来就不具备威胁性，生来就没有血腥暴力的基因，生来就性格温和，是软弱的一方，就比如百灵。

She has consistently been well-behaved and sensible, never causing trouble or annoyance to others.

她从小就是一个很乖很懂事的人，从来都不会给其它人带来烦恼，带来麻烦。

People like her follow a path of resistance and defiance. A further compromise would show weakness for someone with her personality, as she is not destined to be bossy. She can only gain the courage and strength she needs by striving harder to fight back.

她这种人走的是一条奋起反抗之路，她这样的人再妥协一分就是软弱，因为她这种性格的人一生就与强势无缘。她唯有更努力的奋起反抗才能获得坚强勇敢四个字。

Some people hold unrealistic expectations, hoping to gain without effort and try to manipulate others with words. As a result, they teach girls to be gentle and considerate to please men.

有些人异想天开，想不劳而获，想用言语来左右他人，于是教女孩子温柔体贴，以讨男人的欢心。